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Volume 2 Issue 41:                               ISSN 1555-8231

Five Characteristics of Servant Leaders (adapted from The Servant Leader by James Autry, 2002)

Keith Starcher
DayStar Consulting, Inc.

Be Vulnerable

Being vulnerable is not a natural human characteristic.  Our sinful pride leads the charge daily as each of us tends to cover our mistakes.  But a servant leader does in fact admit mistakes.  The words “I’m sorry” are not foreign to this type of leader.  Being vulnerable also means that the servant leader must take the heat many times when the view he or she holds is not the view held by the majority.  As a result, servant leaders may open themselves up to unjust ridicule from others.  But this leader, knowing that she cannot control the response from others, continues to hold herself responsible for the way in which she responds.  Bitterness holds no sway in the mind and heart of the servant leader.  There’s just no room for it. 

Be Accepting 

Here we must be specific.  Servant leaders accept people, not necessarily their ideas, values or behaviors.  This goes far beyond merely “approving,” according to Autry.  Accepting creates a sense of welcome where all within the servant leader’s influence feel relaxed and safe.  The servant leader does not see subordinates, but equals.  There is no “us and them” attitude.  What forms is a “we” culture.  In this atmosphere one can see collegiality evolve as each person realizes his importance and value.  It is not as though the servant leader “descends” to those reporting to her.  Instead, her work associates “ascend” as the servant leader raises everyone else up. 

Be Useful 

If we as managers are to be useful, we must learn to serve.  How strange this must sound to those who have been trained by our culture to strive to become “the boss” because others serve the boss.   But to be truly useful requires a tremendous change of heart.  The “boss” in fact is in a wonderful position to help colleagues in all aspects of their work.  By being warm and open, by understanding each staff person, by making peace at the first sign of hostility between others, by humbly providing all that employees need to perform with excellence—the list goes on and on.  By first being and then doing, a servant leader is useful. 

The Test 

Am I a servant leader?  Here is one test to answer that question.  Do those I serve grow as persons?  Do they, while being served, become healthier, wiser and more likely themselves to become servants?  If so, then I need to thank Him Who created me for showing me the greatest thing that a leader can do—and that is, to love. 

Keith 

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