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Fear...and
Trust
Keith Starcher
DayStar Consulting, Inc.
Last summer Daystar Consulting
held an event entitled “A Dialog with Christian Business
Owners.” At one point during this get together I met with the
business owners while my wife Margaret met with the spouses. As
the business owners and I sat in a circle, I asked each one to
share one prayer request with the group. It was interesting
that two business owners requested prayer because of their
“fear.” As I’ve been privileged to work with several other
business owners since that day, I find that “fear” is not a
stranger to the Christian business owner or to the Christian
employee.
We live in a world where fear is
common—on every continent, in every city, and in every
business. Common business fears include:
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Fear of losing your
job.
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Fear of losing a
key customer.
·
Fear of not meeting
a deadline.
·
Fear that somehow
just won’t measure up.
·
Fear that your
company is going “backwards.”
·
Fear that you will
run out of cash.
·
Fear that the bank
won’t look on your business with favor.
·
Fear that you
aren’t leading the way you think you should.
·
Fear that you’re
spending too much time at work.
·
Fear that you’re
not spending enough time at work.
The list goes on and on. A great
business sage of the 20th Century (Peter Drucker??)
mentioned that one of management’s key responsibilities was to
“drive fear from the workplace.”
Before we continue, ask yourself
this question, “How much fear is there in my company?”
Then ask, “Am I afraid…right
now?”
Someone once told me that fear
can be healthy—even motivational. And I believe that can be the
case. But what I’m talking about in this Insight is an
unhealthy fear, a debilitating fear—a sometimes-paralyzing
fear. So what can we do?
“When I am afraid, I put my
trust in you.” Psalm 56:3
I learned that verse many years
ago. But I discovered a new insight on this verse just
recently. Here it is. You can fear and trust at the same
time. Look at the verse. “I am afraid.” At the same time, “I
put my trust in you.”
It reminds me of the man in Mark
9 who had brought his son to Jesus for healing (the disciples
were unable to heal the boy). At one point Jesus exclaims to
the boy’s father, “All things are possible for one who
believes.” And the father’s response is recorded in the
Scripture as follows: “Immediately the father of the child cried
out and said, ‘I believe; help my unbelief!’”
Here we find a man believing and
not believing at the same time. He asks the LORD to help him
overcome his unbelief and allow his trust in Jesus to go from X%
to 100%.
Here is my point. You don’t
have to be fearless to be pleasing to your Heavenly Father. He
knows that “we are made of dust” and He delights in calming our
fears. He also understands that there may be times when our
trust in Him wavers because of circumstances shouting in our
ears. He is not offended when we cry out, “I believe—please
help my unbelief!”
Fear sometimes comes disguised
as worry. I really enjoyed this the other day in My Utmost
for His Highest where Oswald Chambers writes: “Have we been
slandering God by daring to worry when He has said, ‘Seek first
his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these other things
will be given to you as well.’ Worrying is saying to God, ‘I
know You mean to leave me in the lurch.”
I have something I’ve been
worrying about this week and when I read that, I laughed out
loud. Do I truly believe that the One Who created me, Who knows
me, and Who loves me plans to “leave me in the lurch?” It
doesn’t even make sense!
And so I go forward asking our
LORD to increase my belief, to forgive me for even thinking that
I can’t trust Him with all the details. And He reminds me that
as I increase my level of intimacy with Him (for me that means
spending more time alone with Him), my level of trust in Him
will rise.
Perhaps that is why one of great
preachers (I believe it was D.L. Moody) one morning was quoted
as saying, “Today is going to be a very, very busy day. Thus, I
shall spend more time in prayer this morning.” Sounds almost
opposite to what the modern Christian businessperson would do,
doesn’t it? What will you do this week to drive out fear from
your life—and from the life of your company?
Keith
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